Tuesday, July 8, 2008

Friends

Friends are to share happiness, enjoyment, sadness and tough moment with you........
But.....that's the surface u saw......that's normal capabilities or we can say as requirements for a friend....
But whats true friends are.......they notice your weaknesses and search for your strengths....
If they noticed your weaknesses..... they will find ways to tell you, advise you and guide you to improve.....
If they found your strengths....they will praise you and encourage you to improve as much as you could.....
Yes, they share happiness, enjoyment, sadness and tough moment with you but.......they wont just share........
They will identify whatever things you share to them......izit good to share with ???or bad???
This is base on sharing happiness and enjoyment.......many things could make u satisfied, happy and enjoy.....
But not everything u think could make u happy is a good thing to have.....like drugs, alcohol and smoking..
Friends are to remind you what is good and what is bad which providing happiness and enjoyment to you in this moment......
When come to sharing sadness......friends are as a listener and also a adviser to you......
They do listen to your sad story.....while listening they will tell you the reasons which make you sad.....
Its might be reasonable or its actually your problems which resulting such sad moment to you....
Tough moment....Friends share the impacts on your shoulder for you.......they also support you, 'push' you and also making jokes to decrease your stress level.....and not like those who say ' Never mind, we will always by your side'....but they actually miles away from you when you need them....
So, these are what i think a friend should be.......and i will be glade and die with no regret even i have 1 of this friend....nitez

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